People quit at things because they become discouraged.
So if this is the case, maybe I really need to pay attention to what THEY are doing and saying and thinking instead of working towards my dreams as I have been.
Maybe the voices that pop into my own head at times are right; "I'll never get there", "Those guys are way better at ____ than me", "Maybe my goals are to big", "I don't know who else to talk to", "It's taking too long", "I hate picking up the phone", "Do people really get how much I want awesomeness for them, or should I just keep it to myself"
Maybe I should just quit because I have people around me who quit because they become discouraged. Do I follow the quitters?
If I quit because someone else quits, it seems like that might be the easier path. I wouldn't have the emotional connection anymore that's for sure. I'm thinking I could settle for average, for what I had before I began living on purpose. Most people do just that afterall. Why be different. Why try to MAKE a difference. Who do I think I am to think that I deserve to live without limits? If the majority of others are just going to give up because they get discouraged, why should I continue?
The truth is, I am NO DIFFERENT than anyone else.
To do nothing is a choice.
It is not easier for me. I question, I doubt, I waiver, I stumble.
But what has become evident is that success is about CHOOSING to believe. DECIDING to persevere. Getting up after a fall. Continuing to go on, TRUSTING that the choice and decision and resiliency will lead to achieving goals. There is ALWAYS a choice.
I continue to learn. And grow, and do my best, and take risks, and move on. I surround myself with the evidence that SUPPORTS what I want vs. believing all those who quit to soon.
I strive proudly towards my goals and ask for help, and remain curious and coachable, and stay committed, and surround myself with mentors, and listen to the people who believe in me, despite my own discouragement.
I am no different than a quitter, other than the fact that I CHOOSE not to. Of course I will not quit. I will NEVER quit. I will never stop believing in the power of collective effort and the leverage we have and the amazing lives we are creating.
MAKE PEOPLE'S LIVE BETTER.
Start with helping just one other person to have a better life because in the process two will improve. Join the quitters or join the winners. Its a decision you can make every moment of every day if necessary. It's always your choice.
What you DON'T know about what I shared...
When I look at the people who have joined my team in the last year and a half, many of them are unaware of one crucial point. They are holding half of a winning million dollar ticket in their hands. Some of them might not have realized that it was included in that box UPS delivered to them, and others have it pinned to their fridge. Others still tossed it to the side and grabbed a shiny scratch ticket someone else waved in their face. But guess what - the half of that winning ticket is still here - with names printed on it.
Think about it this way. (I must thank Wendy Cowles for the analogy) Imagine you and I were chatting and I shared with you the winning lottery ticket I had in my hand. I ripped it in half, wrote your name on it, and gave one piece to you. The other piece was lost somewhere in the desert. Not gone, just missing. If you knew that finding that other half would mean the prize was yours, you would search for it wouldn't you. If there was a guaranteed win as a result of finding the missing piece, it is easy to see how that could become your priority.
It is not an impossible task. Not at all.
In fact, here is a tip. The more people you get to help you look for it, the better your chances are of finding it. And because you get others looking too, that winning lottery ticket actually explodes in value exponentially. A million dollar plus prize is available to each person that chooses to go after it. There is no time limit either. Some have found theirs very quickly and others took a little more time. That is not the important factor - because as long as they kept looking and asking others to help, they found it.
Another great thing? Not every ticket has been handed out. In fact, the person who is going to win the largest sum of all hasn't even asked for their half of the ticket yet. Or they haven't been asked if they want one. They don't even know that the opportunity exists. Can you believe it?
My team is making tracks. If you want to dust off the ticket I gave you already - don't wait. A few others waited, and they are watching the rest of us surge forward. You can always catch up, but it's a lot more fun to do it together!
And if you HAVEN'T received one of those UPS boxes that I spoke about earlier, GET IN TOUCH WITH ME because I am not in the habit of chasing people down. Yes, I love what I do, yes I am happy to give you information and YES, I SEE YOUR TALENTS and ABILITIES to do this, often before you do. I will give you a map, I will tell you some shortcuts and I will connect you to others who have done it before you. I will never work harder than you on YOUR GOALS, in your OWN journey. But I'll match your energy and help you with the tools, and when you need help you'll get it by asking for it. And boy oh boy will we have fun in the process!
Think about it this way. (I must thank Wendy Cowles for the analogy) Imagine you and I were chatting and I shared with you the winning lottery ticket I had in my hand. I ripped it in half, wrote your name on it, and gave one piece to you. The other piece was lost somewhere in the desert. Not gone, just missing. If you knew that finding that other half would mean the prize was yours, you would search for it wouldn't you. If there was a guaranteed win as a result of finding the missing piece, it is easy to see how that could become your priority.
It is not an impossible task. Not at all.
In fact, here is a tip. The more people you get to help you look for it, the better your chances are of finding it. And because you get others looking too, that winning lottery ticket actually explodes in value exponentially. A million dollar plus prize is available to each person that chooses to go after it. There is no time limit either. Some have found theirs very quickly and others took a little more time. That is not the important factor - because as long as they kept looking and asking others to help, they found it.
Another great thing? Not every ticket has been handed out. In fact, the person who is going to win the largest sum of all hasn't even asked for their half of the ticket yet. Or they haven't been asked if they want one. They don't even know that the opportunity exists. Can you believe it?
My team is making tracks. If you want to dust off the ticket I gave you already - don't wait. A few others waited, and they are watching the rest of us surge forward. You can always catch up, but it's a lot more fun to do it together!
And if you HAVEN'T received one of those UPS boxes that I spoke about earlier, GET IN TOUCH WITH ME because I am not in the habit of chasing people down. Yes, I love what I do, yes I am happy to give you information and YES, I SEE YOUR TALENTS and ABILITIES to do this, often before you do. I will give you a map, I will tell you some shortcuts and I will connect you to others who have done it before you. I will never work harder than you on YOUR GOALS, in your OWN journey. But I'll match your energy and help you with the tools, and when you need help you'll get it by asking for it. And boy oh boy will we have fun in the process!
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We are in a society of struggle and often hopeless, helpless feelings. Being in a position to offer hope and possibilities to someone is incredibly powerful. Helping people to fill their bank accounts from wherever you choose to set your computer up is liberating.
What if you were provided the system, the tools, the partnerships, the training, the personal development and the resources that made failing impossible, as long as you remained committed? Would you decide now is the best time to turn your current slumping business or even your life around - part-time or otherwise based on the amount of time you can invest ?
If you have a desire to surround yourself with positive people, (you are the sum of the 5 people you give most of your time to) support, strength, friendship, systems and tools that simplify change for others; consider joining our team. If you are willing to follow the steps, stay open and coach-able yourself, and put others before you, whether it is 5 to 10 to 25 hours per week, this is just what you have been looking for.
If you were shown how to incorporate this into what you do for a job now - and create the income and the time freedom that would allow you to do ONLY the parts of your current job that you love, would you get a excited as I am??
We are looking for inspired, enthusiastic and self motivated people who crave an independent life, designed by their dreams. If the only thing that has been stopping you is fear; if you are simply hesitant because you don't know where to begin; or if you are SERIOUS about doing something you are passionate about, here is your opening. If you are ready to do more good, help your family, change your circumstances, let's talk about how to make that happen today.
There is far more glory in working from home, doing something you love, that helps people change their lives, than staying stuck in the dead-end, capped, limited j.o.b. (just over broke) that most people prefer to complain about.
Be different. Be courageous. Finally be YOU for the rest of your life!
Message me to get an overview and see if it's just what you are looking for!
We are in a society of struggle and often hopeless, helpless feelings. Being in a position to offer hope and possibilities to someone is incredibly powerful. Helping people to fill their bank accounts from wherever you choose to set your computer up is liberating.
What if you were provided the system, the tools, the partnerships, the training, the personal development and the resources that made failing impossible, as long as you remained committed? Would you decide now is the best time to turn your current slumping business or even your life around - part-time or otherwise based on the amount of time you can invest ?
If you have a desire to surround yourself with positive people, (you are the sum of the 5 people you give most of your time to) support, strength, friendship, systems and tools that simplify change for others; consider joining our team. If you are willing to follow the steps, stay open and coach-able yourself, and put others before you, whether it is 5 to 10 to 25 hours per week, this is just what you have been looking for.
If you were shown how to incorporate this into what you do for a job now - and create the income and the time freedom that would allow you to do ONLY the parts of your current job that you love, would you get a excited as I am??
We are looking for inspired, enthusiastic and self motivated people who crave an independent life, designed by their dreams. If the only thing that has been stopping you is fear; if you are simply hesitant because you don't know where to begin; or if you are SERIOUS about doing something you are passionate about, here is your opening. If you are ready to do more good, help your family, change your circumstances, let's talk about how to make that happen today.
There is far more glory in working from home, doing something you love, that helps people change their lives, than staying stuck in the dead-end, capped, limited j.o.b. (just over broke) that most people prefer to complain about.
Be different. Be courageous. Finally be YOU for the rest of your life!
Message me to get an overview and see if it's just what you are looking for!
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